You want to raise your child ...

You want to raise your child in such a way that you don\'t have to control him, so that he will be in full possession of himself at all times. Upon that depends his good behavior, his health, his sanity.
You want to raise your child in such a way that you don't have to control him, so that he will be in full possession of himself at all times. Upon that depends his good behavior, his health, his sanity.

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Dianetics is a milestone for man comparable to his discovery of fire and superior to his invention of the wheel and the arch.
When a man has a problem very thoroughly and can't solve it, he really has too few problems. He needs more.
Maintain silence in the presence of birth to save both the sanity of the mother and the child and safeguard the home to which they will go.
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The only aberration is denial of self.