I want you to remember who ...

I want you to remember who you are, despite the bad things that are happening to you. Because those bad things aren't you. They are just things that happen to you. You need to accept that who you are and the things that happen you, are not one and the same.
 Colleen Hoover

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My lack of access to the real world has been replaced completely by books, and it can’t be healthy to live in a land of happily ever afters.
 Colleen Hoover
You don't deserve words, Sky. You deserve actions.
 Colleen Hoover