You are the absolute creator ...

You are the absolute creator of what happens to you. This means now. [...] There is awesome power in knowing this fact. As long as there is even one tiny part of you that thinks the world is doing it to you, the world is going to do it to you. When you know 100% that you create it, you will start influencing the world around you in a much bigger and more positive way.
 Gay Hendricks

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Our species in general had grown accustomed to pain and adversity through millennia of struggle . . . we were only recently evolving the ability to let ourselves feel good and have things go well for any significant period of time.
 Gay Hendricks
One of the hallmarks of an evolved person is the ability to tell the truth with no fear of punishment or expectation of reward
 Gay Hendricks
I expand in abundance, success and love every day as I inspire those around me to do the same.
 Gay Hendricks
I accept relationship as my primary teacher about myself, other people, and the mysteries of the universe.
 Gay Hendricks
The best attitude to take toward back talk is to reach out and embrace it with love, compassion, and understanding. No need to criticize it for its shortcomings or to waste time in recriminations. Just give a loving nod and a hug to any back talk you get, and move on to the joyful creation of your fulfilled life.
 Gay Hendricks