What happens is not as ...

What happens is not as important as how you react to what happens.
What happens is not as important as how you react to what happens.
 Ellen Glasgow

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If one does not know to which port one is sailing, no wind is favorable.
What a distressing contrast there is between the radiant intelligence of the child and the feeble mentality of the average adult.
We are masters of the unsaid words, but slaves of those we let slip out.
I have always found that mercy bears richer fruits than strict justice.
A lie gets halfway around the world before the truth has a chance to get its pants on.

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It is lovely, when I forget all birthdays, including my own, to find that somebody remembers me.
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Though it sounds absurd, it is true to say I felt younger at sixty than I felt at twenty.
 Ellen Glasgow
So long as one is able to pose one has still much to learn about suffering.
 Ellen Glasgow
...America has enjoyed the doubtful blessing of a single-track mind. We are able to accommodate, at a time, only one national hero; and we demand that that hero shall be uniform and invincible. As a literate people we are preoccupied, neither with the race nor the individual, but with the type. Yesterday, we romanticized the "tough guy;" today, we are romanticizing the underprivileged, tough or tender; tomorrow, we shall begin to romanticize the pure primitive.
 Ellen Glasgow
The age is a vociferous one, and no prophet is without honor who is able to strike an attitude and to speak loud enough to make himself heard.
 Ellen Glasgow