We would not have to forgive ...

We would not have to forgive people if we didn't judge them in the first place.
 Barry Neil Kaufman

Quotes from the same author

If we become uncomfortable in any given moment, we can look at a flower, a pebble in the street or the tire on our car and be grateful. We can gaze at a person in the distance or at a cloud in the sky and be appreciative. We can smile at a stranger, hug someone we know or tidy a disorganized shelf and be thankful for the opportunity. If we choose gratitude, we will be happy!
 Barry Neil Kaufman
Every time we allow someone to move us with anger, we teach them to be angry.
 Barry Neil Kaufman