We value apology in the ...

We value apology in the abstract, but turn our backs on it in practice.
 John Kador

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When I accept an apology it means that the part in me that honors our relationship honors the part in you that honors our relationship.
 John Kador
Accepting the apology signals the acknowledgment of a need to move forward, but not necessarily together.
 John Kador
Apology may start as a feeling, a desire to make matters right, but it requires a commitment to move that desire into practice, to actually take on the great courageous task of showing compassion to others.
 John Kador