There is always a third ...

There is always a third possibility, as long as you have the ability to find it.
 Selma Lagerlöf

Quotes from the same author

Have you ever seen a child sitting on its mother’s knee listening to fairy stories? As long as the child is told of cruel giants and of the terrible suffering of beautiful princesses, it holds its head up and its eyes open; but if the mother begins to speak of happiness and sunshine, the little one closes its eyes and falls asleep with its head against her breast. . . . I am a child like that, too. Others may like stories of flowers and sunshine; but I choose the dark nights and sad destinies.
 Selma Lagerlöf
It is not a good omen to meet a lot of cats when one sets out on a journey, so the Lieutenant spat three times for each cat, as his mother had taught him to do.
 Selma Lagerlöf
No one is able to enjoy such feast than the one who throws a party in his own mind.
 Selma Lagerlöf
The ways of Providence cannot be reasoned out by the finite mind ... I cannot fathom them, yet seeking to know them is the most satisfying thing in all the world.
 Selma Lagerlöf