The trouble is, SMers are ...

The trouble is, SMers are allowing themselves to be defined by what they are not. We think, "Oh, so many people believe that we're all murderers and rapists, and we have to explain that we're not!" Uh so, a slogan for the gay civil rights movement should be "Normal, Non-threatening and Not After Your Children"?
 Laura Antoniou

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What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is bad.
 Laura Antoniou
Safe, sane and consensual what do those words really mean? Assimilation, that's what.
 Laura Antoniou