Parents accept their ...

Parents accept their obsolescence with the best grace they can muster. . . they do all they can to make it easy for the younger generation to surpass the older, while secretly dreading the rejection that follows.
 Christopher Lasch

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Every age develops its own peculiar forms of pathology, which express in exaggerated form its underlying character structure.
 Christopher Lasch
The left sees nothing but bigotry and superstition in the popular defense of the family or in popular attitudes regarding abortion, crime, busing, and the school curriculum.
 Christopher Lasch
The family is a haven in a heartless world.
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