No matter how much a young ...

No matter how much a young man likes to think for himself, he is always trying to model himself on some abstract pattern largely derived from the example of the world around him. And a man, no matter how conservative, shows his own worth by his personal deviation from that pattern.
 Cesare Pavese

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Those philosophers who believe in the absolute logic of truth have never had to discuss it on close terms with a woman.
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