If you take the teachings of ...

If you take the teachings of Jesus, whether you consider yourself saved or you don't, those teachings are pristine. They're wonderful guides for life. And there's nothing in them that says hurt other people.
 Keith Ablow

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Most children would rather preserve the fantasy of a loving connection with their fathers and mothers, at all costs, even if it costs them their self-esteem. When you're three or seven years old, it's less frightening to think of yourself as an unlovable, disappointing screwup than to recognize the fact that you're living with a monster.
 Keith Ablow
I think men should be able to veto women's abortions if they're willing to care for the child after it's born.
 Keith Ablow
Plenty of people who survive tragedies end up ambivalent about danger--frightened by it, yet strangely drawn to it.
 Keith Ablow