I believe the old cliché, ...

I believe the old cliché, 'God helps those who help themselves,' is not only misleading but often dead wrong. My most spectacular answers to prayers have come when I was so helpless, so out of control as to be able to do nothing at all for myself.
 Catherine Marshall

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God's way of dealing with us is to throw us into situations over our depth, then supply us with the necessary ability to swim.
 Catherine Marshall
Once we recognize our need for Jesus, then the building of our faith begins. It is a daily, moment-by-moment life of absolute dependence upon Him for everything
 Catherine Marshall
Acceptance says, True, this is my situation at the moment. I'll look unblinkingly at the reality of it. But I'll also open my hands to accept willingly whatever a loving Father sends me.
 Catherine Marshall
I learned that true forgiveness includes total acceptance.
 Catherine Marshall
I learned that true forgiveness includes total self-acceptance. And out of acceptance wounds are healed and happiness is possible again.
 Catherine Marshall