Better be a nettle in the ...

Better be a nettle in the side of your friend than his echo.
Better be a nettle in the side of your friend than his echo.

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Thought is the blossom; language the bud; action the fruit behind it.
The invariable mark of wisdom is to see the miraculous in the common.
Our distrust is very expensive.
Wisdom has its root in goodness, not goodness its root in wisdom.
Do not follow where the path may lead. Go, instead, where there is no path and leave a trail.