And when I say that is ...

And when I say that is certainly true, that our marriage is over. I know what else she will say: \
And when I say that is certainly true, that our marriage is over. I know what else she will say: "Then you must save it." And even though I know it's hopeless- there's absolutely nothing left to save-I'm afraid if I tell her that, she'll still persuade me to try.

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I am like a falling star who has finally found her place next to another in a lovely constellation, where we will sparkle in the heavens forever.
But later that day, the streets of Kweilin were strewn with newspapers reporting great Kuomintang victories, and on top of these papers, like fresh fish from a butcher, lay rows of people - men, women and children who had never lost hope, but had lost their lives instead.
Whenever I'm with my mother, I feel as though I have to spend the whole time avoiding land mines.
Mothers have the huge influence, and I feel like they're always teaching us from the day we're born what to be afraid of, what to be cautious of, what we should like and what we should look like. Then we spend half of our life trying to be not like them, and then we reach another part of our lives where we see these things we can't get rid of.
My mother didn't teach me lessons about being Chinese as strongly as she did the notion of who I was as a female.